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"Does my baby have a tongue (or lip) tie?"
If you're curious about whether or not your baby has a tongue or lip tie, you're in the right place for some words of wisdom from an IBCLC experienced in working with tongue and lip tied babies!
While IBCLCs cannot diagnose your baby with lip or tongue-tie, we can help you understand if the impact of your baby’s oral tethers can be mitigated with positioning/hold, or if the tethers are symptomatic enough to require an appointment with an expert assessor/diagnoser/treater of tongue and lip tie.
Tongue-tie outcomes are greatly optimized by working with a tongue-tie knowledgeable IBCLC before getting an assessment from a pediatric dentist or ENT (the two most common assessors/revisors of infant oral tethers.m). From knowing the local tongue-tie care landscape, to helping coordinate and strengthen baby’s oral muscles to help avoid a tongue-tie release or minimize procedure impact, to making the right referral to the provider that can best assess your baby (not al providers are versed in all types of oral tethers), seeing an experienced IBCLC (like yours-truly) before and after a frenectomy (release of tongue-tie) will help your baby heal faster, decrease a baby’s chance of reattachment, and will help families avoid unnecessary steps
Interestingly, some tethers aren’t obvious to untrained parents or medical staff, but an experienced IBCLC who listens to a parent’s report of pain, assesses nipple-injury patterns and watches baby’s oral and body movements at the breast can help families to form a game plan-and that game plan can range from helping a baby to loosen their whole body vía massage, helping a baby to strengthen their oral muscles, or the game plan could be see an expert and licensed expert on tongue and lip ties.
During an “investigation”, an IBCLC will help manage, stabilize and protect breastfeeding (latch, milk supply, etc.) so that once oral issues are resolved, original breastfeeding goals are still met.
Did you know that what may seem like a “tie” may simply be restricted muscles from a difficult birth?
Avoid taking shortcuts...
For the best outcomes, don't take shortcuts in tongue-tie care. Too often we work with families who only go to whoever is easiest to see, and skip visiting experts because they are out of network or have a cost. The end-result can be bigger eventual expenses from unaddressed ties, ties which were not properly released, and a continuation of symptoms such as nipple pain, decreased milk supply and weight issues with baby.
Tongue-ties matter to both breast and bottle fed babies!
Because tongue or lip tie is something that a baby is born with, both breast and bottle-fed babies can be affected. Babies who nurse are able to stretch their tongues and lips to an extent with nursing, yet babies who bottlefeed don't always use the same vigor and work the same muscles. So while some may think that tongue tie isn't a big deal in bottle-fed babies since mom isn't being injured and her supply may not be at-risk, it's incredibly important (if not more important) to have a lactation consultant investigate your baby's mouth and feeding if you suspect that your baby may have a tie.
And finally...
Before continuing your Google-journey, we invite you to read our blog post "5 Myths About Tongue-Tie" to help you understand what is and isn't important about ties.
While IBCLCs cannot diagnose your baby with lip or tongue-tie, we can help you understand if the impact of your baby’s oral tethers can be mitigated with positioning/hold, or if the tethers are symptomatic enough to require an appointment with an expert assessor/diagnoser/treater of tongue and lip tie.
Tongue-tie outcomes are greatly optimized by working with a tongue-tie knowledgeable IBCLC before getting an assessment from a pediatric dentist or ENT (the two most common assessors/revisors of infant oral tethers.m). From knowing the local tongue-tie care landscape, to helping coordinate and strengthen baby’s oral muscles to help avoid a tongue-tie release or minimize procedure impact, to making the right referral to the provider that can best assess your baby (not al providers are versed in all types of oral tethers), seeing an experienced IBCLC (like yours-truly) before and after a frenectomy (release of tongue-tie) will help your baby heal faster, decrease a baby’s chance of reattachment, and will help families avoid unnecessary steps
Interestingly, some tethers aren’t obvious to untrained parents or medical staff, but an experienced IBCLC who listens to a parent’s report of pain, assesses nipple-injury patterns and watches baby’s oral and body movements at the breast can help families to form a game plan-and that game plan can range from helping a baby to loosen their whole body vía massage, helping a baby to strengthen their oral muscles, or the game plan could be see an expert and licensed expert on tongue and lip ties.
During an “investigation”, an IBCLC will help manage, stabilize and protect breastfeeding (latch, milk supply, etc.) so that once oral issues are resolved, original breastfeeding goals are still met.
Did you know that what may seem like a “tie” may simply be restricted muscles from a difficult birth?
Avoid taking shortcuts...
For the best outcomes, don't take shortcuts in tongue-tie care. Too often we work with families who only go to whoever is easiest to see, and skip visiting experts because they are out of network or have a cost. The end-result can be bigger eventual expenses from unaddressed ties, ties which were not properly released, and a continuation of symptoms such as nipple pain, decreased milk supply and weight issues with baby.
Tongue-ties matter to both breast and bottle fed babies!
Because tongue or lip tie is something that a baby is born with, both breast and bottle-fed babies can be affected. Babies who nurse are able to stretch their tongues and lips to an extent with nursing, yet babies who bottlefeed don't always use the same vigor and work the same muscles. So while some may think that tongue tie isn't a big deal in bottle-fed babies since mom isn't being injured and her supply may not be at-risk, it's incredibly important (if not more important) to have a lactation consultant investigate your baby's mouth and feeding if you suspect that your baby may have a tie.
And finally...
Before continuing your Google-journey, we invite you to read our blog post "5 Myths About Tongue-Tie" to help you understand what is and isn't important about ties.
What is a tongue tie, and how can it affect breastfeeding?
Common reasons to have a tongue or lip assessed for ties*:
Baby:
Mom
- Difficulty with latching to breast or bottle
- Hovers over areola but doesn't draw in nipple
- Tires easily
- Slow weight gain, or weight loss
- Clicking when feeding from the breast or bottle
- Clamps mouth on nipple, collapses bottle nipple
- Low milk transfer from breast or bottle
- Prolonged feeds
- Persistent or frequent thrush
- Unable to hold in a pacifier
- Reflux and excessive fussiness; sounds "wet" in throat or gurgley when swallowing
- Gags a lot
- Issues accepting solid foods
- Future speech issues
- Cavities
Mom
- Very sore, cracked, raw or bleeding nipples (sometimes doesn't have soreness)
- Compressed-looking nipples after latching
- Low milk supply over time
- Bacterial and fungal breast infections which fester after tongue tie injury
- Early weaning and feelings of disappointment in mom
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